4 Shocking Secrets Women Never Tell Their Men

Although men have been overtime tagged with the characteristics of  not talking and being able to keep secrets, the woman race has been noted for keeping some things secrets even with the talking nature they are known for.

Often times, relationships do not work out due to some things a woman expects from her man but the man in the picture can not even point out what exactly the woman want. Yes, women are known to be very open and can be extremely talkative creatures in comparison with men, but you will be surprised that not only men have some things to hide, but women also have some secrets.

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For every one woman, be rest assured that there is a mystery attached. Most men feel the female gender can never be satisfied but hey!, here are basic things you must know as a man to get along well…and not only get along well, but to look like a ‘god’ in front of your woman in all situations.

Women Love Surprises. No woman likes a boring ‘nothing-new-to-look-forward-to-man’, same way a man does not like a boring woman. The term ‘boring’ for a man does not mean same thing for a woman. Women like crazy surprises, surprises that can brighten up a moody face. Now, do not get it wrong, surprises do not necessarily mean spending money…helping out with the dishes while she cooks will sure gladden her heart.

Making the bed while she tends the children to sleep will surely clear out all the day’s stress and get her willing to yield for any of your favorite sexcapades…you know what I mean! Even if it is a gift, it necessarily does not have to be expensive. Be rest assured that when she realizes the fact that some effort has been taken to make her feel happy, you will be soon rewarded.

Women Like To Be Part Of Every Decision-Making Process. Do not be deceived by what anyone tells you about a man being the head and Lord of the house. Yes, women know that their men have naturally been saddled with the responsibility of making decisions for the home, but even when they know that fact, they still want to be a part. Even when a woman knows her husband still has the final say, she feels appreciated when her opinion or view is consulted by her husband concerning an issue.

It goes a long way to suggest to the woman that she is just not a figure head but her opinion really matters! Dear men, boost the egos of your woman today, make them feel they are important in the house and not just the ‘kitchen manager’.

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Women Want Men To Decode Their Various Body Languages. Women are mostly known to have a sixth sense, especially if it concerns relationships. Women have been penned down to be very sensitive when a man is involved. No little detail can go down the drain when a relationship is question, that is why it is widely assumed that there is no way a woman will not know a friendship-relationship that will blossom into something more cordial.

Women want to be in a particular home dress and have their man decode what they want or how they really want it or relatively how they are feeling at the moment without having to say a word. A woman desire a kind of relationship that just like the football field, the referee need not talk but will just blow his whistle and phew!..the footballer(s) know what he means.

Every Woman Want A Honest Man. Even when dishonesty is the order of the day, a lot of women, if not all, want to be seen and attached to a man with a great repute. Every woman want to be happy to be linked with a man that everyone thinks has a great character with little or no flaw.

Women want to be able to gist about their men with other women without the fear of being tackled or questioned about his behavior. To them, being a great man starts from having what some other women’s men do not have, which makes them shine more in the midst of their friends.

Sure there are other things women want; things like telling them how much you love them very often, being there for them always and many more,…with the list above, you have just read some of the innermost thoughts of every woman, although some of them might not own up to this.

Are African Men Really Romantic?

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Time immemorial, the female African race has been on the search to know the real reasons engineering why their men have supposedly been so unromantic compared to their Caucasian counterpart. Sending flowers, public display of affection, saying sorry, lighting evening candles without any occasion and many more are what has characterized men of the non-African race but alas, it can only be noticeable in just a handful of men from the African continent.

It is of utmost importance to note that romance is an essential part of a relationship which helps in producing and strengthening a special bond in one’s relationship. However, it can mean different things to various people but there’s a standard notion of what it should be.

Have you ever wondered why the ‘’unromantic’’ culture has been a trend from one generation to another? Every African boy grow up with ‘’a-do-not-be-seen-as-weak’’ syndrome, hence, the bold face value even when they are passing through the hardest of times. Although Mrs. Nzeribe, a health official in a Lagos state hospital feels men do the ‘’I am the man’’ thingy so as not to be seen as vulnerable to their feeling, especially right in front of their woman, this should never be the case because there’s absolutely nothing wrong with a man showing how much he loves and cares for his woman.

African men, tend not to have the fairytale, affectionate and lovingly loving towards their women because they have seen how their father ran the house, how their father was the lord of the house and how their mother was just there to carry out all orders that come from her ‘’lord’’. The African adage that says ‘’the soup in which the man of the house doesn’t eat, the wife of the house must not prepare’’, has so much to do in the way and manner African men view their interactions with their wives.

Although the African man has been portrayed as violent, thug, controlling, possessive and always coming through as someone without any sexual desires, Mr. Oshikoya, a Computer analyst in Lagos made it known that every African man has huge sexual needs; it only takes a very subtle and unrelenting woman to bring him to his kneels crawling and drooling all in the name of showing his wife all the love and attention in this world.

In conclusion, women seem to view romance as a state of being, while men tend to look at it more as a sequence of specific actions. An African man feels there is nothing as romantic as building a house for his wife and children, being able to provide for their immediate needs and many more while a woman looks at the imaginary, fanciful and many other things portrayed to them in movies as yardstick to being romantic. Needless to say men need to be more open to the exact needs of their wives while wives in turn help their men know what they really want?